WAYS TO GET YOUR MAN BY YOUR SIDE
The list below are secrets to help you man by your side
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1. Respect him above all things: Men love to be respected and also interpret respect as love. When you give your husband the maximum respect he sees that and counts it as love. There are some men who may have different ways they feel loved but the majority of men feel loved when their wife or woman respects them. Ephesians 6:22 of the Bible talks about wives submitting themselves to the husband and verse 25 told husbands to love their wives. This goes to affirm the fact that men feel loved when you respect and submit to them. Respecting and submitting to your man does not mean you should become a slave to him but that you accord him the necessary respect as the head of the family.
2) Learn to appreciate him: As a woman or wife, learn to appreciate your man. This is one thing that also gets men by your side. Men always love it when being appreciated and will love to be in company with people who appreciate them. Studies show that most men who are appreciated at home hardly cheat on their wives. And they want to do more to be appreciated some more. So in every area, you appreciate your man he tends to do more better than before.
3) Learn to pamper him: Pampering your man will keep him from cheating on you. Most husband and boyfriend snatchers have mastered the act of pampering men. Men will always want to go where they’ll be pampered. Even though we are in the era where women empowerment and equality are now the order of the day. Try as much to pamper your man. Whatever you give comes back to you, that’s a principle of life some call ‘karma’. So when you pamper you’ll be pampered. Give it a try and you’ll be surprised.
4) Spice up your sex life: Taking sex to a different level in the relationship plays a key role in getting the man by your side. Women should at times also instigate sex. Most men get excited if sex is started by the woman, and try to give their best in such instances. You should sometimes have conversations to know what satisfies him and what doesn’t. Know how he’d love his sexual needs met.
5) Pray for him: you should learn to pray for your man. This is one of the very important ways to keep him by your side. Most marriages would have been wonderful if the wife learns to pray for the husband and vice versa.
6) Never try to outshine your man or husband when it comes to helping with the little things at home. Always make him feel comfortable like the superior. In your desire to please him do not go far in displaying your performance above his, it inspires fear and insecurity in men. No matter the help you offer him as her wife, fiancee, etc let him appear the more brilliant. Knowing this danger will help you keep your man by your side.
7) Create that peaceful environment in and around your circle: Men stay where they find peace. Men cherish peace above everything else trust me on this. When a man finds out you are troublesome but you have a good sexual relationship all he cares about is the sex aspect not staying with such a partner, he comes when he needs sex. Staying in such a domain generally irritates and repels men.
NB: All things stated here can easily become how your man or husband treats you if you learn to perfect that. Remember what you give in a relationship is always received back. It’s shouldn’t be only one side providing it makes that individual get weary.